It is actually day 5 of my 30 days challenge, but as I did not write a blog post yesterday I declare this day 4. The reason for it is irrelevant, which brings me to the topic of today: I love you, but you are irrelevant.
You might say that is not a nice thing to say to someone. And if you take the words literally it might just be not that nice. But actually, with the right intention, it is the most beautiful thing you can say to someone. It means that you will not hold the other responsible for how you are feeling, and whatever he or she might do, you love that person.
You can also direct this towards problems you are experiencing: I love you dear problems, but you are irrelevant to me. With true love comes acceptance, and with acceptance you can let go of the struggle within and your boat will start floating in the direction of the stream of well-being.
You don’t have to say this out loud as it might freak them out, but just say it in your mind and feel it with your hart and show them your smile. It changes your life and theirs.